Monday, July 30, 2012

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN: CRUSH, FRIENDSHIP, LOVE AND TRUE LOVE...

CRUSH:-
  "Unlike poles attract each other" I think this will possibly explain why a boy get attracted towards a girl and the vice versa.  When this attraction is a little intense, then people wish to attain their attractive ones, here legally the attraction may be called as a crush...But when they realize that they cannot either get along with them or be a part in their life. And when they want to move on in their life...People cruelly crush their feelings inside of their heart itself and gives their attraction a  pseudo name called crush and they move on in their ordinary life.
If boys' eart can be operated we can find a high school teacher lying underneath tagged with a name called CRUSH ( hotter one mostly) ..:D and if girls' brain (as far as I guess it is their love organ ) is operated  then there may be anyone starting from a neighbor house watchman to a Bollywood hero, who is burried as crush..
FRIENDSHIP:
It is a phase before love compulsorily and after love sometimes unluckily...:P To remain adhered to the topic I will write friendship about the opposite genders... When a boy and girl get a chance to know about each other of what they like and hate...when a boy protects her and when a girl helps him...its all friendship...they chat, discuss, argue, help, fight and remain as such with the changes happening around them .  It often remains as a foundation  to love and that is when both understands or fears that in their journey of life they could never meet someone so interesting and such a pair...and what?? Duffer..they fall in love idiot. And I cannot write about a girl or a boy having many friends of the opposite gender...
Perhaps, some remain as friends: one or both of them having buried their feelings within them just because they are forced to...
A few who have crossed their fingers for the friendship bud to blossom as a love flower, are really blessed when mutual understanding breeze softly opens up the petals of t bud into an ever-wilting love flower.
And a few remain as honest friends when one or both has found that their soul-mate is some-other...
This holds true for the love stories of 90's..However, with this modern gadgets love...Friendship is a code word to break up.,certainly after a break up.
Ex...When a guy in a relationship is bored of explaining to his girl that there are colors other than pink...animals other than dogs...stuffs other than chocolates. he plainly says that they can remain as friends... Yes, when a relationship gets bored (pardon me or when it is efficiently used up) then an intelligent guy will convince her girl that they shall end up as friends for the good of both...In a way boys are a little arrogant and clever(Evil smile), when a girl (Cunning one of course) possibly says the same coz after that she will be once again baptized with a new common name called.."Bitch"
This is how friendship goes...
LOVE:-
This is pleasant feeling mixed with emotions both physical and mental...It is when a girl or a boy having no idea receives a proposal and decides to end up with him/her because he/she is the one they happily live with. And the worst case occurs later...that blamingly when they meet someone, without whom they cannot happily live with. And these are the cases where the providence plays a great comic role...But like a joker in Dark Knight..it is evil..
Love, apparently happens only once, but we can make it happen during the second and third time.  The subtle difference between love and true love is that..when one can imagine our marriage with another other than our soul mate..at the same time could not tolerate imagining some other holding their loved ones' hands in the marriage stage it is love...And true love is when they believe that their sweet heart must be happy where ever or with whom ever they might be.
TRUE LOVE:
(Mothers love..fathers love...etc. are not dealt here)
It is mostly an unrequited or untold one...(Platonic in 90% of the cases) that's because human will love someone truly only when they do not get a thing or have lost it...If my brain is tilted towards the question what True love means mine would project with an answer of first love...Yes..true love happens only once & remains forever...with only one & no other
Other than that true love means sacrifice if in a couple..true love means to hold their arms together during the ups,downs..zenith and abyss of happiness and sorrowfulness to indicate the whole that they are forever blessed...True love is when two souls in final stages of their life..taking in the air the other souls gives out..just because they want to breath only after making sure that the other soul is living well...
Well in these computerised love decades, true love means nothing other than exchanging their facebook or gmail passwords...:D :) :D

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

So Simple Is that...


“Wonders, surprises, regret or remorse whatever it may bring,
Either blissful smile or seamless tears whatever it may result
Afterwards, I may be proud and happy of attempting this greatest venture
Or I may curse myself for doing this blunder mistake…Perhaps,
If I wish to own you, sooner or later I have to do this for sure…
There may be thousand others who will be a better match for you…
Yet, I feel that there will be no one like me who loves you…
And this gives me the confidence to say to you about my wish
Yes, I believe you and I belong to a single word called US
We never know how wheels of time are going to rotate and alter the paths of our lives
So what I feel at this particular stage of my life seems to be more important
Because this moment I hope will make my life forever beautiful…
I don’t want to delay anymore…
So simple is that, you understand,
“I love you… and I wish to spent my life with you””

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

DONT BE FANATIC OF YOUR GOD, IF HE EXISTS THEN HE WONT LIKE THIS...


IF GANESH IS THE REAL GOD TO BE IN EXISTENCE WITH INFINITE KNOWLEDGE AND POWER...THEN HOW COULD HE ALLOW THE EXISTENCE OF OTHER RELIGIONS SUCH AS CHRISTIANITY, ISLAM AND OTHERS…SIMILARLY IF JESUS OR ALLAH ARE THE REAL GODS WITH INFINITE POWER THEN HOW COULD THEY TOLERATE THE EXISTENCE OF PEOPLE WORSHIPING OTHER GODS (WITH THEIR INFINITE POWER THEY WOULD HAVE DESTROYED OTHER WORSHIPERS OR THEY WOULD HAVE CHANGED OUR HUMAN MINDS TO WORSHIP ONLY THEM)...
BUT IT DOESN’T, THIS MEANS BOTH THE EXISTENCE OF A PARTICULAR RELIGION AND PARTICULAR GOD IS EITHER ABSURD OR ALL THE EXISTING RELIGION AND THEIR GODS MUST BE FRIENDLY WITH EACH OTHER.  SO IT DOESN’T MAKE SENSE WHEN PEOPLE FIGHT FOR THEIR OWN RELIGION AND THEIR OWN GOD.
 You may or may not have understand wht I m trying to say...My point is...
WHEN YOU ARE FANATIC TOWARD A PARTICULAR RELIGION EVEN THE GOD OF THE RELIGION WHOM YOU BELIEVE TO EXIST WON’T TOLERATE THIS….BECAUSE IF THE EISTENCE OF RELIGIONS OTHER THAN THE ONE OF YOUR PARTICULAR GOD’S IS A PROBLEM THEN IT IS INDEED HIS AND NOT YOURS PROBLEM. 

Monday, July 16, 2012

Let it go...


When you realise that you have fallen in love with someone, it is always better to make your sweet heart to become aware of it soon, because until you say them, they will never knew.  Instead don't unnecessarily dream about your future with them, you can't be certain of playing a major role in their own script.  Though this increases the love of you it may also result in causing an incurable wound.  So it is better to warn them to think well before they chose on whose arms they shall fall.  If you are afraid now, then you will be afraid always...Don't be stupid enough that they will realise it by themselves or by your gaze and they will also have fallen in love with you just because you have. 
When you propose be confident of taking everything easily.  If your love is reciprocated then it is a heaven on earth for you.  Never let ego to play a role in between in you.  But mostly after your proposal you will realise to the cruelty that your love got ignored.  If that happens you will be depressed and your life will become a void within the fractions of a second...but at some point of time you will realise you cannot go on like this.  Do whatever that makes you feel okay or better because you have no other option. 
When you find that your sweet heart has already mingled with some other soul, you will hate everything from your existence to god and your being.  But remember even Romeo, who sacrificed his lovely life for his another half Juliet, is a broken heart of Rosemary before he met Juliet.  Yes, some love stories end abruptly so that some epic love stories shall begin.  So never try to impress or deceive them anymore, after they have found their own life partner, instead try to be an honest friend to them.  If it is not possible just wish them all the best and stay away from their life as much as possible. 
WHATEVER IT MAY BE...whenever you are in love never do anything silly or cruel., and never think of ending your life to escape from all these mental torments...ignoring these try to remain gentle, calm and trustworthy...
Don't worry that your love have went untold, unrequited or mislead...because if God be there then he will love you for your gentleness in your love and you will love him back. God is someone who is within you.  So when you love god, then eventually you will love yourself....And there begins the real meaning of your life and that is when you realise your soul mate is indeed someone other....      

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Top Novel Publishing Companies In India


Here are the few publishers those who will not read the query letter even, all they do is when they receive our query mails, they fix a forwarding message to our address to be sent after 2 or 3 days, saying that they are already busy with their projects.
1.       PENGUIN
2.       RANDOM HOUSE
3.       HARPER COLLINS
4.       ZUBAAN
Their replies are like

Many thanks for your proposal! Please regard this as a letter confirming
the receipt of your work. Our editors will assess what you have sent us,
and if we accept the work for publication or find that we are keen to read
the complete manuscript, you'll certainly hear from us within six to eight
weeks. However, we sincerely regret that because of the large volume of
manuscripts we receive, it isn't possible for us to send out individual
emails to writers whose work we are unable to publish. If you do not hear
from us within the six to eight weeks, please know that we have been
unable to accept your work for publication. Please note that we will not
return any manuscripts. We do hope you understand.

Warm regards,
The Editors
Then like a telephone ringing in a locked house there won’t be any answer from them.
And here are the publishers who will never read your synopsis but their reply will be
(I attached my synopsis in my mail, with a synopsis..In that synopsis, I wrote “I know you wont be reading this“  and typed it for 20 times then sent it to them)
1.       RUPA
2.       ROLI BOOKS
3.       WESTLAND
4.       YODA PRESS
5.       HACHETTE


We thoroughly went through your synopsis and full manuscript. We really appreciate getting a chance to consider your proposal and while there truly is some great writing here, but unfortunately this book doesn't fit into our publishing programme at the moment and therefore, we will not be able to take it up for publishing.

Many thanks again for considering us for this work.
  I was really laughing much while reading this, and worst of all the publishers were rupa they just check author profile and nothing other…


This is what some other publishers do..they sent us a mail that they have accepted to publish ours and their reply will be
  Greetings from ****** Publishing! Thanks for writing in .

We confirm the receipt of your submission. The submission is complete will all required elements.
We are forwarding your submission to the Editorial section of ****** Publishing, a senior editor will take discussions further with you post complete evaluation of your work.

       You may expect the senior evaluator to get back to you within 15 working days (3 weeks) or earlier.

·          Incase of any delay or lapse please feel write back to the senior evaluator  with a reminder or to *******

·         This e-mail is only a confirmation of your completed submission and cannot be treated as a selection by the company. The senior evaluator’s decision will be final.

And there will not be any answer from them, they just accept but never publish that’s the hard truth to be digested.  They are

1.     LEADSTART
2.     GREYOAK, ETC

GRAPEVINE:

THIS IS THEIR REPLY, AND I HEARD THAT THEY PUBLISH ONLY THEIR WORKS…
We received your proposal and our editors have gone through it. However, it does not fit our publishing profile and hence we won’t be able to undertake the same for publication.
Thank you for your interest in our company; we wish you the best in placing it elsewhere.

MAHAVEER, MILLS AND BOON.

I do not know about them as my word count doesn’t fit into their programme..

 And there are many other publishers , such as v.s, who are indeed robbers in the fake name of publishers..


Nevertheless, there are few awesome publishers who promptly respond to our queries and consider giving a chance to new authors,
They are
1.     SRISHTI …..AND NO OTHER
Even in their busy schedule and best recognised stature, they try hard to give chance to new authors…unluckily we havenot seen any of their books since a few months. I guess they are hibernated



I AM NOT WRITING THIS TO AVENGE THEM, BECAUSE THEY REFUSED TO ACCEPT MINE.  I KNOW THEY CANNOT PUBLISH EVERYONE WHO WRITE. MAY BE MINE WOULD NOT BE WORTHY OF BEING PUBLISHED.  PERHAPS, WHAT I CANNOT TOLERATE IS THAT THEY NEVER PUBLISH ANY NEW AUTHORS, WHO DO NOT HAVE STRONG RECOGNITION OR MONEY…AND THEY FORGET THEIR OBLIGATION… AT LEAST THEY SHOULD READ THE SYNOPSIS.  THEY SHOULD BE CAREFUL BEFORE REJECTING ANY AUTHORS QUERY WHO KNOWS IT MIGHT BE A MASTERPIECE. 
AND AS FAR AS I KNOW THERE ARE MANY MASTERPIECE WORKS STILL UNRECOGNISED, UNPUBLISHED IN INDIA...    
AND THESE CLEARLY EXPLAINS, WHY POPULAR WORKS ARE NOT GOOD AND GOOD WORKS ARE NOT POPULARISED IN INDIA.